HighSchool Problem

   Hi again! Im pretty sure that some of you reading this is either has been trough Highschool (Adult), is going to be in Highschool in a couple of years (pre-teen), or currently in it. Highschool can be extremely depressing sometimes, all the homeworks, project, test, annoying teacher, breakup, betrayal, frienemies, ugh. But do not worry! I have some tips that'll help you to survive :D

Common Highschool Problem:

• Insecurity 

You! There is nothing wrong with how you looks, just be confident and also don't forget to love yourself. Stop putting too much makeup ,dont starve yourself, do not cut yourself, that's not worth it. Just remember that each and every one of you is precious :)

• "No boyfriend, not cool."

This isn't 90s anymore, you do not need a guy to complete you, seriously. If you're not ready to have a relationship with someone, i suggest you don't. Because sometimes relationship can be complicated and it leads to drama, drama, or more drama. 

• Frienemies

The most obvious difference between middle school and Highschool is that in Highschool you will discover who is your real friend. A friend that stand up for you in your darkest days, not the one who stick up to you during your brightest day. You will find out that not all of your friend is "friend".

• Fitting in 

If you move to a new school and youre afraid of not fitting in, well, dont be afraid, you eventually will. Just be your self, and the right people will come to you :) thats what i do. 

• Crush that doesn't like back

If you have a crush on someone, and he/she doesn't like you back, don't force it. Maybe he/she is just not meant for you. The best base for a relationship is always friendship. You gotta know him well enough, and you can decide your feeling later. 

• Breakups

If you have a relationship and it didn't work out, don't blame yourself. Don't put too much pressure in yourself. Just give your heart a time to heal and time to forgive. Time heal almost anything :) Aside from your boy friend, you still have your family and friends to run to. You are not alone. 

• Bullies

If you're the one who's being bullied, talk to someone you can trust. Your closest sister or your teacher will do. If it gets too much, report it. I understand it might not be easy but don't let the bullies get the best of you. 

If you're the one that bullied people, its not too late to stop. Did bullying people makes you feel better? bullying isn't cool at all, change yourself, i know you can.  

Thankyou for reading, its just my opinion and feel free to send me feedback on my social media :) i hope you find it somewhat helpful :) As always, stay awesome xoxo

Brigitta Gladiola